A protective order, commonly known as a restraining order, is a court-issued document that works to protect someone from physical abuse, sexual abuse, stalking, threats, or harassment. These orders are a legal way to keep someone from coming within a certain distance of you, force an abuser to move out of a shared home, or keep someone from engaging in certain conduct.
Victims of domestic violence can pursue a Domestic Violence Restraining Order. This specific type of protective order is appropriate if someone you have a “close relationship” with has abused you or threatened to abuse you. (Keep in mind that this abuse does not have to be physical in order to qualify as domestic abuse; verbal abuse and threats also count as domestic violence for the purpose of this protective order.) This “close relationship” requirement applies to people who are married or registered domestic partners; divorced or separated; dating or used to date; living together or used to live together (as more than roommates); parents together of a child; or closely related, such as a parent, child, brother, sister, grandmother, grandfather, or in-law. You can also file a restraining order on behalf of your child if she or she is being abused.
Depending on the circumstances, a restraining order can include a number of different provisions about where the restrained person is allowed to go, what he or she can legally do, and where he or she should live (or, in most cases, not live). A Domestic Violence Restraining Order can order the abuser to:
- Not contact or go near you, your children, other relatives, or others who live with you
- Stay away from your home, work, or your children’s schools
- Move out of your house (even if you live together)
- Not have a gun
- Follow child custody and visitation orders
- Pay child support
- Pay spousal or partner support (if you are married or domestic partners)
- Stay away from any of your pets
- Pay certain bills
- Not make any changes to insurance policies
- Not incur large expenses or do anything significant regarding your property if you are married or domestic partners
- Release or return certain property.